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  <title>Reassessing my 2026 New Year&apos;s Goals</title>
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  <description>In honor of my newfound sense of mortality I think now might be a good time to reassess my 2026 New Year&apos;s goal list.  I made it when I was depressed and although I did plan to use it to inspire me to finish some percent of items on the list it was mostly an invitation for me to dream of &amp;quot;one day&amp;quot;.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&apos;m over that bump though and I would like to celebrate today instead.  So, I think evaluating and altering these to fit what I am actually physically capable of doing would be nice. Some goals I will leave alone, others I will reduce the goal number on significantly, some I will be replacing and others I will simply remove with no notes.&amp;nbsp; It will be long and ramble-y so I&apos;ll put it behind a cut&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://embracingcalm.dreamwidth.org/12039.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Here we go...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;------------------------&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After reassessing my goals here is the updated list.&amp;nbsp; It&apos;s a much more realistic set of goals that I actually might finish this year.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Explore Ouzel Picnic area with John&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Finish 5 paintings (4 remaining)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Complete 20 hours of biking (19 remaining)&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Read 15 books&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Go Kayaking 3 times&lt;br type=&quot;_moz&quot; /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Grow Marigolds, Sunflowers,&amp;nbsp;and Kale&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;Make 12 desserts/sweets (4 remaining)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Get my nose pierced&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br type=&quot;_moz&quot; /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Complete 1 rug&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;Make 1 granny square dress using thrifted yarn&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br type=&quot;_moz&quot; /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;Make 1 plein air painting&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br type=&quot;_moz&quot; /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;Complete 5 sewing projects&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color: rgb(153, 204, 0);&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;In addition to these I have been thinking about visiting my 43Things goal list via the wayback machine to see what I have completed in the 20 years since it was closed.&amp;nbsp; I have been missing 43Things since it closed in 2015.&amp;nbsp; I was a very active member of the community and still miss the friends I knew there as well as the format.&amp;nbsp; I have looked many many times but no website ever opened that had the same energy or concept.&amp;nbsp; With that in mind, I may choose to attempt to create a 43Things community here.&amp;nbsp; I know it might not be the same but I would like to honor the spirit of the space because it made me feel so hopeful and invested in living.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=embracingcalm&amp;ditemid=12039&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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