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Jan. 1st, 2026 09:13 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
embracingcalm2026 is not off to a good start. My husband and I have been fighting for two hours. I had some plans for today but now I’m angry and because of my MCAS anger has me feeling sick so I went to the bedroom and now I need to wait until I’m no longer having a reaction to do anything otherwise I’ll probably throw up.
I’m starting to think I should avoid talking to him about anything creative or concerning the house design. I’ll explicitly state what the project’s needs are durring the conversation then he will interrupt me to proffer an idea that doesn’t meet the requirements I just laid out. Often in the process he’ll say something condescending… not on purpose but because he’s sort of naturally conversationally clumsy with me. It’s particularly irritating because he is very adept at speaking to people he works for in a gracious manner but not people outside work.
Idk.
I’m starting to think I should avoid talking to him about anything creative or concerning the house design. I’ll explicitly state what the project’s needs are durring the conversation then he will interrupt me to proffer an idea that doesn’t meet the requirements I just laid out. Often in the process he’ll say something condescending… not on purpose but because he’s sort of naturally conversationally clumsy with me. It’s particularly irritating because he is very adept at speaking to people he works for in a gracious manner but not people outside work.
Idk.
