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[embracingcalm]

I generally don’t clean my husband’s home office. I am in charge of the remainder of the house and have insisted that if he needs something done in there that he ask. He is not good at cleaning. Despite my offer he insists on cleaning his office which I learned today he allows the dog to pee in on pee pads. I was chatting with him while getting ready for the day while he was cleaning the carpet in his office when he… walked into the bathroom holding the toilet brush and rinsed the carpet cleaner off of it by sticking the brush in the toilet and flushing it repeatedly.

That’s how I learned that he has been cleaning the carpet in his office with a toilet brush for almost a year now. When I asked him about why he would use a toilet brush he said he just found the brush in the bathroom and assumed he was the only one using it. I guess he assumed that the toilets clean themselves when in fact it’s me cleaning them with that exact brush.

I try to be a loving compassionate and understanding person but what the fuck? I am so disgusted and sort of hurt. I have an autoimmune disorder. I can’t have people spreading literal human shit and bacteria from the toilet into my living space.

How in the world could a normal adult human think that is appropriate?